The question is: How do you interpret these situations? Do you take everything personally or do you consider that itвЂ™s more likely that your friend is just having a bad day, your new date is still interested but wants to play it cool, and that the stranger on the street was angry about something and didnвЂ™t even notice you were there? Dates donвЂ™t always respond to your text messages, friends donвЂ™t always smile back at you when you smile at them, and strangers sometimes have upset looks on their faces. If you scored high (4 or 5) on all of these items, you may have what psychologists have identified as a вЂњtendency for interpersonal victimhood.вЂќ It is very hard for me to stop thinking about the injustice others have done to me.When people who are close to me feel hurt by my actions, it is very important for me to clarify that justice is on my side.I think I am much more conscientious and moral in my relations with other people compared to their treatment of me.It is important to me that people who hurt me acknowledge that an injustice has been done to me.Quick: Rate how much you agree with each of these items on a scale of 1 (вЂњnot me at allвЂќ) to 5 (вЂњthis is so meвЂќ):

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